Some people prefer to be a virgin until they marry to the right person, especially in the Asian Culture. If an Asian woman is not a virgin when she gets marry, then he husband will not appreciate her. Some Asian men are damn picky, selective, and have high expectation in women. Some of them do not like to fool around, because they afraid of diseases. They also prefer to have a stable career before they decide to have a family. In Vietnam, if a marriage woman already had kid and divorced her husband, then she will more likely has a tough time to get a new man. The only chance she has is either marry another widow man or an foreigner man. Most young Asian men only marry virgin women around their age. If a young Asian man is dating a woman who already has kids, then his family and friends will give him a negative look.